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I am an openly gay erotica writer. I am a top, and enjoy being on the controlling end of things. I
am currently not looking for IRL encounters - what I am looking for is: conversation about your secrets, your fantasies, your real-life experiences that have shaped you to be who you are today. I am generally more interested in those who are still closeted, as I am curious about the things that keep them there. I have been told I am a good listener, and I have mentored youngsters (18-35ish) who are looking for advice in life matters. So if you need someone to talk to, I'm here for you as well.
I know plenty about those closeted straights in the city - but I'd like to know what the differences are for you in your current community/situation. I don't judge, I am just interested to learn about you and your circumstances.
For further interest, my biggest fetishes are intoxication (seeing a man I find attractive very drunk is extremely arousing to me), secrecy (hence the closeted aspect on your end), and control (because of the dominating factor). I have profiles on Recon and Fetlife as well - ask me for my handles there if interested.
If you are still reading, drop me a line. Your story might inspire a chapter in my next book - but nothing we discuss will be published, unless you give me authorization to do so.
Take care, boys.
Tez.
Age: 56, male, looking for friends with a man in Orlando, Florida, USA
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I'm willing to meet new people of this group even more than just friends like a relationship or so
but I got to see what we have in common.
Age: 24, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Texas, USA
23.
Want to meet a bigger married gentleman for excusions.
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or dating or intimate encounters with a man in Denver, Colorado, USA
24.
Closeted gay bear, single, looking for encounters leading to LTR
Age: 73, male, looking for a man in North, Charlotte, North Carolina, USA
25.
am a gay closet transgender woman looking for a friendship
Age: 65, transgender, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters in Fargo, North Dakota, USA
26.
Top looking for discrete bottoms for regular hookups
Age: 37, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Lawndale, Los Angeles County, California, USA
27.
I just want to meet someone who is interested in a possible long-term relationship. I am ready for
a chance at love.
Age: 53, male, looking for a man in Galleria, Houston, Texas, USA
28.
Yes
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Louisville, Jefferson County, Kentucky, USA
29.
bi curious guy here 27 looking for a trucker traveling through Perry FL that wants to meet up at
truck stop take my virginity try new things with me help make my fantasy become reality
Age: 31, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Leon County, Florida, USA
31.
I love discreet men and I love meeting their needs even more
Age: 42, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Birmingham, Alabama, USA
32.
5 10, 187, short SP hair, goatee. Smoothish with hairy lags. 6 cut, big nuts. Masculine, down to
earth, non-pretentious guy
Looking for a similar masculine man, either bi or gay
Age: 62, male, looking for friends or dating or intimate encounters with a man in Arlington, Arlington County, Virginia, USA
33.
Just checking things out, you never know what may be out there.
Age: 34, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship in Orlando, Florida, USA
34.
I am a professional, 5 '11, 168 lbs., with a smooth, muscular build and workout six days a week.
I live alone and am located in Los Angeles near in the hills behind Universal Studios.
Getting together at your convenience is not a problem for me
Age: 73, male, looking for a man in Los Angeles And Palm Springs, Los Angeles, California, USA
35.
Older guy, looking to travel inside US. Weed smoking companion wanted. Travel mostly by car/RV. No
strings, the plan is, there is no plan. Would like to rough out some target places to visit and take everything in between as it comes. Prefer. Clean cut younger guy with positive attitude.
Age: 56, male, looking for friends with a man in Dallas, Texas, USA
36.
To hide who you are because of what stigma it may place on them is not really living. To suppress
how you may feel about someone and to never act upon it can be difficult. I’ve been in that position growing up and it almost broke me down. Being who you were meant to be and not follow the rules set by others takes courage. We are who we are and should never be anything else.
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Eugene, Oregon, USA
37.
Looking for fun
Age: 34, male, looking for intimate encounters in Bevois Town, Southampton, England, UK
38.
I am a hot, submissive, latex cross-dresser. Please contact me to see my discreet photos. I have a
four year university degree, speak English and Japanese, and maintain a full time, professional job. I also operate an adult fetish website, which features me in various bondage and sexual situations. I seek a mature, literate person who feels passionate about my photos and has the courage to meet me in real life. Thank you.
Age: 58, male, looking for a man in Ann Arbor, Detroit, Michigan, USA Here are more GayLifeCentral members which meet your search results:
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Gay cowboy looki for same with same likes etcs but start out as friends first
Age: 63, male, looking for friends or dating with a man in Mitchell, South Dakota, USA
22.
I am living on the small farm I grew up on. It is simply home. I have been on another dating site
which is mostly a hookup place. Not what I'm looking for, and guys from the city usually don't understand the country or the ties to the land country people have. Looking for someone who may be a potential partner, and wants to share a quiet life in the country. That probably means someone who is retired, or can work from anywhere.Generally interested in men about forty and up. If you are a person who craves constant activity and excitement, this is not the place for you. If I send you a message, it is because I find your profile interesting, and would like to say hi. Hope you'll do the same.
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Age: 75, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Rural Area, Nebraska, USA
23.
Im an Ottawa Valley boy who loves to spend time outdoors. I like traveling, hunting, fishing,
camping, paddling, riding, bonfires, beer, whiskey and the occasional cigar.
Looking for other like minded masc guys who just happen to enjoy other men. My sexuality is not who I am.
Age: 41, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Capitale, Ottawa, Ontario, CANADA
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Student, professional, into fitness, meditation, outdoors, equestrian and fun … Would love to
travel …
Age: 32, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Nanaimo, British Columbia, CANADA
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Single Iowa farm boy type guy, born and raised on a farm. Grew up raising hogs with family, then
started raising horses. Was raising horses till 2010. Loved seeing all the new foals in the spring time. I love trail riding, rodeos, horse shows, traveling, dinners/movies, etc....... Was working for the Department of Agriculture for over 30 yrs. Recently took early retirement and am changing my way of life now. Bought a pickup and 5th wheel travel trailer and am going to be traveling around the United States. Would be nice to have a traveling partner as well as a lifetime partner to go with me..... I'm sincere, honest and very caring.. I have a huge heart with a lot of love to give that special person. Are you the one? If your single and looking give me a shout.... Looking forward to hearing from you..... Big Hugs, Mike
Age: 64, male, looking for a man in All, Iowa, USA
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All man. Not out. Looking for the same. Grew up farming. Wrestled in HS and college. Professional
now. Love all hunting except duck, fishing, camping, sports. Seeking one exclusive friend.
Age: 49, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in St. Louis, Missouri, USA
27.
Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and it still not being long since my last breakup, "Mountains of the Heart" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ...
"She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
Dust on the Barbed Wire ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
Jealous of the Moon ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 72, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
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Wanted Bottom Man
I am 69, six foot two inches, 220 lbs., salt and pepper hair, hazel eyes, beard, slightly hairy body, eight inches cut d/d/s free, nudist, top, discreet.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Avon, Rochester, New York, USA
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A DOWN TO EARTH GOOD MAN CHARLIE BROWN SEEKING GREAT FRIENDSHIPS BONDS!! Guys-G0ys I am a really
happy shy southern down-to-earth WM European of Spaniard descend, laid back, genuine, non-pretentious, or hooked on stereotypes of any kind, masculine, military, spiritual, professional degree, well educated and traveled, stable, sane, and most respectful. I am a Combat Veteran of OPERATION ENDURING FREEDOM 2003-2004 and OPERATION IRAQI FREEDOM 2005. For the most part, I am a kid at heart and treat everyone as I want to be treated looking for real honest-down-to-earth people. Remember your inner personality is what is more important rather than your physical. Laid back, don't smoke, and drug and disease-free. Enjoy camping, hiking, sky diving, cross country runner, swimming. My parents did a great job raising me. Drop me a line if you like to chat anytime, thanks.
Age: 64, male, looking for friends (only!) with a man in Simpsonville, South Carolina, USA
30.
Well, let me start by saying I am a born and raised Albertan. I am just your average ginger guy. I
am career-driven and more of a suburban-rural type of guy. I tend to like the simpler things in life and like to take things as they come. I have no great expectations on dating sites but in small hopes of meeting similar-minded dudes with the same interests and drive as me.
I am for one not much for the gay scene, I rather be camping and hiking or hunting or fishing or 4X4ing or Quading, and boating even going horseback riding and checking out rodeos. I love checking out the Auto or Outdoor shows along with the home and garden and big Motorbike shows. I am always down for random road trips from the mountains to the countryside to Kelowna to having a pint on a patio somewhere. I do watch hockey and some other sports, to just a simple horseback ride. I love country music and rock mainly as well 80s. As for shows I love to watch The Walking Dead or Netflix
Age: 45, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Carstairs, Alberta, CANADA
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Looking for guys that would not mind talking from time to time
And form a friendship and maybe more
Age: 27, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Haskell County, Kansas, USA
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I just like to be myself and let others be themselves and see where it goes! I'm honest and genuine and am looking for likewise in a top as I am a big 'ol bottom!
Don't like posers and users or people with agendas! If you're none of these we'll get along fine! Not sure if true love or soulmates exist, change my mind! I'm kinda of shy and like alone time! Not into bar scenes although I do like a good drink! Maybe when the pandemic is over we can go out!
Age: 59, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Seattle, Washington, USA
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In a perfect world you would move here and help me on the ranch. It would be good if you were
mechanical too. A love of plants , and cooking. It would not hurt if you were fuzzy as compared to smooth. But I can live with most things.
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Lawrence, Kansas, USA
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I enjoy roller coasters, bowling, skating, zip lining, line dancing, ATVing, fishing and being in the country. I use to own and train horses now I am into raising and breeding dogs. Like to find someone that wants something real. I recently got out of a Ten year relationship with my last partner. Ready to start over and build something again. Prefer the company of younger guy, especially country or laid back. Someone that feels comfortable in a pair of boots and jeans. Also doesn't mind getting his hands dirty and jumping in to help finish a project around the home, inside or out. Must be okay with large dogs, they are a big part of my life currently. I tend to be drawn to a slim to average build country boy look. Someone that can be affectionate, likes to cuddle and watch TV some nights. Other nights maybe just sit by a creek and talk all night. Besides being affectionate, a bit playful or a kinky side isn't a bad thing, but not a must.
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Swansea, South Carolina, USA
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I am a Christian, cultured and well-educated gentleman, a locally PUBLISHED poet, a rather dapper
dresser, but I remain a LOYALLY LOVING, 100% HAND-spanking-starved "son" and BENEVOLENT "boy" type. I SINCERELY seek and wish to cherish a CARING, HAND-spanking, strict father figure in my presently lonely life as a bachelor FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE!
Age: 70, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship with a man in South End, Sudbury, Ontario, CANADA
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Have dated, had a LTR for 15 years, been single for many and would now would like to find a lifetime partner to settle and enjoy life with. I like living out in the country since I've always worked in large metro areas. Like manly men but have a diverse personality myself. I'm curious about life in general - people, places, history and current events. Prefer mentally mature guys at any age but mostly within about 10 years either way of my age. Everybody I know tells me I'm great material but probably due to all my moves with work I haven't found anyone yet.
Friends, Friends with benefits or LTR are all interests of mine!
Age: 71, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Fairfield County, Ohio, USA
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Countryboy horse trainer, red hair blue eyes, I'm a monogamous ltr kinda of guy. I like camping,
hiking, dancing, cooking, gardening, growing and raising my own food on a homestead/farm/Ranch. Love music, older country music is my go to everyday music but I do enjoy different kinds of music. I'm a big lyrics nut. I'm honest and loyal almost to a fault. Family oriented not into the gay scene. Not into hookups or open relationships. Just an old fashioned countryboy here. I enjoy the simple things in life. Hiking down a creek bed, slow dance around a campfire, long country drives, trail rides on a horse. I love animals and livestock. Florida Native but goal is to relocate, The rual area I was born and raised in has gotten way to crowded and the land way to expensive for my blood. I love living in the country definitely not a city boy. I'm more on the masculine side and like masculine men. Monogamy and moral integrity is a must have for me. Someone who knows what chivalry is. Someone that's looking for a life partner and that's not afraid to get married if it comes to that stage in the relationship. I'm definitely not your typical gay man. Looking forward to meeting a real man and a life partner to walk beside each other through life. Where we each do whatever it takes to make it in life and relationship.
Age: 54, male, looking for a long term relationship with a man in Ft. Myers, Florida, USA
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Age: 55, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Marietta, Georgia, USA
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Hi, I grew up on a small farm (220 acres) in Western Michigan. Attended college in Kansas and spent the next 12 years there. I moved to NM in 1986 and have lived here since. I like most outdoor activities including hiking, snow shoeing and exploring new areas. I enjoy attending rodeos , two stepping and traveling.
Age: 71, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Rural Area, New Mexico, USA
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Just getting started with an electrical apprenticeship and some longterm plans to have my own land.
Enjoy all kinda outdoor hobbies, R&R, working with my hands, lifting weights. Sardonic sense of humor and wit. Listen to Country, Rock, Blues, Etc. Just looking for someone compatible. Loyalty, longevity and commitment over sexual monogamy. Sincere, easy going and find it easy to chat/call - expect the same.
Age: 28, male, looking for a long term relationship with a man in Houston, Texas, USA