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21.
I am an openly gay erotica writer. I am a top, and enjoy being on the controlling end of things. I
am currently not looking for IRL encounters - what I am looking for is: conversation about your secrets, your fantasies, your real-life experiences that have shaped you to be who you are today. I am generally more interested in those who are still closeted, as I am curious about the things that keep them there. I have been told I am a good listener, and I have mentored youngsters (18-35ish) who are looking for advice in life matters. So if you need someone to talk to, I'm here for you as well.
I know plenty about those closeted straights in the city - but I'd like to know what the differences are for you in your current community/situation. I don't judge, I am just interested to learn about you and your circumstances.
For further interest, my biggest fetishes are intoxication (seeing a man I find attractive very drunk is extremely arousing to me), secrecy (hence the closeted aspect on your end), and control (because of the dominating factor). I have profiles on Recon and Fetlife as well - ask me for my handles there if interested.
If you are still reading, drop me a line. Your story might inspire a chapter in my next book - but nothing we discuss will be published, unless you give me authorization to do so.
Take care, boys.
Tez.
Age: 56, male, looking for friends with a man in Orlando, Florida, USA 
22.
just looking for friends and maybe more- we will see as we get aquainted.
Age: 81, male, looking for a man in Phoenix, Arizona, USA 
23.
Closeted gay bear, single, looking for encounters leading to LTR
Age: 74, male, looking for a man in North, Charlotte, North Carolina, USA 
24.
Yes
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Louisville, Jefferson County, Kentucky, USA 
28.
5 10, 187, short SP hair, goatee. Smoothish with hairy lags. 6 cut, big nuts. Masculine, down to
earth, non-pretentious guy
Looking for a similar masculine man, either bi or gay
Age: 62, male, looking for friends or dating or intimate encounters with a man in Arlington, Arlington County, Virginia, USA 
29.
I am a professional, 5 '11, 168 lbs., with a smooth, muscular build and workout six days a week.
I live alone and am located in Los Angeles near in the hills behind Universal Studios.
Getting together at your convenience is not a problem for me
Age: 73, male, looking for a man in Los Angeles And Palm Springs, Los Angeles, California, USA 
30.
To hide who you are because of what stigma it may place on them is not really living. To suppress
how you may feel about someone and to never act upon it can be difficult. I’ve been in that position growing up and it almost broke me down. Being who you were meant to be and not follow the rules set by others takes courage. We are who we are and should never be anything else.
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Eugene, Oregon, USA 
32.
Age: 65, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Spry, Pennsylvania, USA 
33.
I want to meet like-minded men.
Age: 74, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Otter Tail County, Minnesota, USA 
34.
I am a hot, submissive, latex cross-dresser. Please contact me to see my discreet photos. I have a
four year university degree, speak English and Japanese, and maintain a full time, professional job. I also operate an adult fetish website, which features me in various bondage and sexual situations. I seek a mature, literate person who feels passionate about my photos and has the courage to meet me in real life. Thank you.
Age: 59, male, looking for a man in Ann Arbor, Detroit, Michigan, USA 
35.
Greetings gentlemen. I'm just a guy open to most all types, looking for some local fun.
Age: 65, male, looking for intimate encounters with a man in New Hampshire, USA 
36.
My self-summary
I am just a man who grew up when you could not be gay. Well, I am gay, and so I have no instructions to follow. I am doing the best I can.
I am limited physically but I love travel and new things and movies and dining and cruises and just having a good time at museums and other events. I want to share all my happiness and my life with you!!!
Age: 65, male, looking for friends with a man in Río Grande, Puerto Rico, USA 
37.
Looking for someone like me who reciprocates with fun and adventure. Prefer masculine, muscular,
handsome (in animal terms), down to earth, open-minded, and fit pardners.
Age: 50, male, looking for a man in Rural, Tampa, Florida, USA 
39.
love all
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Brigadoon, York County, Pennsylvania, USA 
40.
Professional Country boy, just so happens I am closeted. Seeking same for quiet and discreet play
time.
Age: 67, male, looking for a man in Stuck In The Sticks-gonzalestx, San Antonio, Texas, USA 
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Age: 63, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in T Or C, New Mexico, USA 
Age: 62, male, looking for friends with a man in Madison, Wisconsin, USA 
Age: 64, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA 
Age: 54, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Calgary, Alberta, CANADA 
Age: 66, male, looking for a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA 
Age: 56, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship with a man in Davenport, Iowa, USA 
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or dating with a man in Cambria, San Luis Obispo County, California, USA 
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Fergus Falls, Rural Area, Minnesota, USA 
Age: 71, male, looking for friends with a man in Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA 
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Salt Lake City, Utah, USA 
Age: 58, male, looking for intimate encounters with a man in Hot Springs, Arkansas, USA 
Age: 62, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Texas, USA 
Age: 62, male, looking for friends with a man in Zapopan, Guadalajara, Jalisco, MEXICO 
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Austin, Texas, USA 
Age: 60, male, looking for intimate encounters with a man in Alberta, CANADA 
Age: 65, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Trenton, New Jersey, USA 
Age: 55, male, looking for friends with a man in Tucson, Arizona, USA 
Age: 72, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Rural Area, New Mexico, USA 
Age: 68, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Alamogordo, New Mexico, USA 
22.
I am a retiered military man.Im a single outdoors guy im looking for friends ,...I
fish,hike,camp,hunt, ride horses,,,4x4ing up in the mountains.you must like being outdoors,Im a cowboy I drink , smoke curse i like bars and pool,I dont date fem men.don't like it?dont message me.not interested in 3 ways or groups. Looking for a guy to hang out with.
Age: 63, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in T Or C, New Mexico, USA 
23.
I think I'm a good guy. Pretty good looking. Interested in fitness, outdoor activities, good food
and beers. Realizing most of my friends are work-related and hoping to find some non work friends. Willing to see where things go beyond that.
My politics are center-left. If you're a Trump supporter, MAGA, or Q, don't waste your time and move along.
Age: 62, male, looking for friends with a man in Madison, Wisconsin, USA 
24.
Mature man looking for same to develop a good, genuine friendship and trusted confidant around my
own age. My ultimate desire is to establish a long term relationship, hopefully the friendship would develop into it, if we decide to go there. Looking for someone who can communicate openly and honestly. If we become intimate during that development that's fine too. Ready and willing to take a chance on developing a friendship first and see what develops from there.
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Age: 64, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA 
25.
Currently living somewhere in Asia. Come from a mixed race background. With family currently in
Australia and in the UK, have decided to start anew in a place that is far removed from the toxic daily grind and just bring some calm and rejuvenation.
Age: 54, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Calgary, Alberta, CANADA 
26.
Easy going, laid back country boy here looking for similar. Be nice to find a guy that likes the wide open spaces, horses, cattle, dogs and other livestock.
Age: 66, male, looking for a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA 
27.
6’5” top
220 lbs
Biker, Cowboy, Camper, Rodeoer
Age: 56, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship with a man in Davenport, Iowa, USA 
28.
Looking for friendships and more to enjoy adventures , travel , athletics , exercise and intimate bonding that comes with friendship and shared interests. New to the central coast of California . Just getting started . Going to be reaching out and saying hello to guys that interest me . Be a champ and say hello as well .
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or dating with a man in Cambria, San Luis Obispo County, California, USA 
29.
Howdy
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Fergus Falls, Rural Area, Minnesota, USA 
30.
After living in California for over 40 years I felt is was time to move in a different direction. I
sold my ranch in Southern California and moved to Santa Fe, New Mexico. I had many great experiences in California and many that I will never forget.
I'm in Santa Fe County on a comfortable 5 acre ranch with 9 horses. These are Quarters and TB's that we train for racing. My passion for horses, horseback riding and a more simple life in the country dates back to when I was a kid. I will admit, in my late teens and early twenties I ventured out to try out city life. I did okay, made some good money and met some terrific people but country life drew me back in when I was in my 40's and so here I am. I have a partner of 5 years and we enjoy all that life has to offer. Meeting other like minded men is always a good thing.
Age: 71, male, looking for friends with a man in Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA 
31.
I am probably the worst person you can meet. ;)But other than that, here are the basics.
I am:
• 5'11"
• 59 years of time on this planet
• 265# but working on getting it down to around 225#. Want to help a guy out?
• Grey hair
• Brown eyes.
• I have a furry belly :)
• Non-smoker. (But I do not get bothered by smokers)
• Don't do drugs.
• Incredibly shy
• Learning to live life
SEXUALLY:
• I am a bottom.
• Not very well experienced
• Not well endowed (Hung like a tic-tac ;) )
• I like shower/bath sex. (lets get dirty and clean at the same time! ;) )
• I also enjoy a bit of frotage (clothing on).
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The Details:
If you're interested in hooking up, that probably will not happen. Sex isn't the main goal for me. Besides as stated above, I am not well endowed. It's pretty darn small (3"~4" hard), and that is why I prefer to be a bottom.
I also find sex with clothes on . . or in the shower or bath . . can be unique and fun. I also like to give oral (Reciprocation is not needed).
I tend to be a bit shy and naive, so if you are interested and seem sincere, you will need to have a public place and time in mind to meet at first before the considerations of anything else will happen.
So if you managed to read through all this, Hurrah! You might as well respond now, and say hi. (And I don't mean to literally write to me with the word "Hi" and say nothing else.) You don't need to carry on like I just did ... but please put some of your sparkling personality in your message.
Or don't.
See if I care.
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Salt Lake City, Utah, USA 
32.
Ok, let's try again. I hate these things. I either come across as a total loser or an arrogant
asshole. All I'm really wanting is to have sex. Not looking for a husband,boyfriend,partner or long term mate. I'm looking for no strings,no drama, no hangups guy(s).I have wheels and can travel. I'm a bottom guy with varied sexual desires. No blood,scat or pain. Everything else is what I want.lol... I love to have my ass played with and to suck an uncut cock is heaven. Roughnecks,rednecks,trailer trash,brown guys, black guys, white guys, I love all their cocks. If you want to know more or are interested in having sex, holler at me.
Age: 58, male, looking for intimate encounters with a man in Hot Springs, Arkansas, USA 
33.
No hassles hayseed cowboy here. Easy to please. No drama, no strings, fun times.
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Age: 62, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Texas, USA 
34.
Couple looking for friends, single or partnered. Maybe for playing toghether or just meeting and having a nice time.
Somos una pareja que busca amigos, solteros o parejas también. Podríamos "jugar" juntos o solamente pasar un buen rato.
Age: 62, male, looking for friends with a man in Zapopan, Guadalajara, Jalisco, MEXICO 
35.
I reject the "Gay" Lifestyle, the "Gay" Flag, the "Gay" political agenda. PERIOD
I am a man who likes men.
Looking for the rural life with one or more men who reject modern society and don't mind chopping wood for heat or driving 2 hours to the nearest big box store.
Looking to retire in the next few years, but until then I have started working 100% remote so I can relocate anywhere (where there's no state income tax, that is). Figure I should find a place in the country with Star Link and work and flesh out my retirement place with the niceties while I can afford it. Anyone want to join me?
The ideal place for me to retire would be Fort Davis, TX on the Davis Mountains; a few acres, single/double wide mobile home, sheds turned into an office and/or tack room, a barn, solar power with battery back up and a rain catchment system. A garden and a few fruit/nut trees and a few chickens. Living as self sufficiently as possible, having outside work to do to stay healthy and in shape and being outdoors. Knowing that friendship and companionship lasts while sex fades, keeps me focused on finding a simple life with like minded men.
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Austin, Texas, USA 
36.
NEW
I’m basically a discreet disease free bottom who loves to give head or bottom for disease free
discreet top truckers.
Age: 60, male, looking for intimate encounters with a man in Alberta, CANADA 
37.
Recovering academic with a heavy-duty cowboy/outlaw/lawman/gunslinger fetish. Ethnicity:
"Scotch-Irish" (or whatever it was in Tennessee) on father's side, English/Flemish on mother's. Sexual mindset: Kinky. Religion: Protestant, somewhere between Episcopalian and Methodist. Politics: liberal who doesn't understand why believing in the equality of all under the law regardless of race, creed, gender, etc., a flexible and nonpartisan administrative state, a tax code progressive enough to discourage vast concentration of wealth, and vigorous and farsighted environmental and energy policies necessitates being a goddamn wimp who won't even defend his own positions let alone his life or property. Aesthetics: all over the place, as you would expect from someone whose favorite novel is Joyce's Ulysses and whose favorite filmmaker is John Ford. (And I don't even have the excuse of being Irish!) Frugal. Keeps appointments. Affectionate. Enthusiastic cook and overeater. Strictly social drinker. Non-smoker, though has considered taking up the pipe for the sheer looks of it. Swears. Can ride a little (Western, of course). Can host.
Age: 65, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Trenton, New Jersey, USA 
38.
I’m a horse guy and have been riding all my life (and always will). It’s always great to meet
likeminded gents for friendship, or ya never know. I am a tall one, so I’m used to riding big guys. Prefer it. I am very masculine and find myself most comfortable in masculine environments. However, I really fit in anywhere. Please feel free to shoot me a message. I’d love to hear from you!
Age: 55, male, looking for friends with a man in Tucson, Arizona, USA 
39.
Hi, I grew up on a small farm (220 acres) in Western Michigan. Attended college in Kansas and spent the next 12 years there. I moved to NM in 1986 and have lived here since. I like most outdoor activities including hiking, snow shoeing and exploring new areas. I enjoy attending rodeos , two stepping and traveling.
Age: 72, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Rural Area, New Mexico, USA 
40.
Since retiring in July 2021 I have got in better shape by keeping active . I used to weigh 194
before retiring and now I weigh 162 and went from a 36 waist down to a 31 waist . I am married to a nice man and we are looking to meet up with RVers truckers , cowboys , regular men , blue collar workers or retired men for friendship and if the chemistry is there we enjoy 3ways so if you are interested we are just off Hwy 70 on the west side of Alamogordo so get in contact if you are driving by and hopefully we can meet and play . We enjoy leather gear and I also enjoy erotic play wrestling in wrestling singlets , jocks , speedos and tight fitting jeans and also love taking photos
Age: 68, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Alamogordo, New Mexico, USA 