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Single man looking for dating and possibly a long-term relationship with the right man. I'm in
recovery and my sobriety is top priority for me. I'm not opposed to someone else who drinks occasionally as long as my sobriety is respected. I'm down to earth, open and honest and prefer the same.
Age: 62, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Missouri, USA 
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I struggle with sobriety and looking for support looking for friends to talk and share
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Toronto, Ontario, CANADA 
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10 years recovered drugs and alcohol
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Duluth, Gwinnett County, Georgia, USA 
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Age: 60, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Indianapolis, Indiana, USA
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My self-summary
I am just a man who grew up when you could not be gay. Well, I am gay, and so I have no instructions to follow. I am doing the best I can.
I am limited physically but I love travel and new things and movies and dining and cruises and just having a good time at museums and other events. I want to share all my happiness and my life with you!!!
Age: 66, male, looking for friends with a man in Río Grande, Puerto Rico, USA 
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Looking to meet sober gay men between 18 and 40 for serious dating/long term relationship.
Age: 70, male, looking for a man in Oak Lawn, Dallas, Texas, USA 
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24 years sober thanks to HP and the fellowship. Sober sex is great and you remember it!
Age: 73, male, looking for a man in Rosarito San Diego el Centro, San Diego, California, USA 
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I have been in recovery for a number of years, and I know that someone in recovery is likely to
recognized spiritual value when he sees it. What 's valuable in a relationship isn 't what makes us high, but what makes us joyful, and happy the next day.
Age: 76, male, looking for a man in Upper West Side, New York, New York, USA 
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Looking to meet men my age who are in shape and go to the gym. I work out at Bally Total Fitness.
I am HIV+ and play safely.
Age: 70, male, looking for a man in North Hollywood, San Fernando Valley, California, USA 
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Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
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Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
Age: 64, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Age: 60, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Sydney, New South Wales, AUSTRALIA 
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If you don't read my profile before contacting me, don't expect a response.
It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
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Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Washtenaw County, Michigan, USA
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Recovering academic with a heavy-duty cowboy/outlaw/lawman/gunslinger fetish. Ethnicity:
"Scotch-Irish" (or whatever it was in Tennessee) on father's side, English/Flemish on mother's. Sexual mindset: Kinky. Religion: Protestant, somewhere between Episcopalian and Methodist. Politics: liberal who doesn't understand why believing in the equality of all under the law regardless of race, creed, gender, etc., a flexible and nonpartisan administrative state, a tax code progressive enough to discourage vast concentration of wealth, and vigorous and farsighted environmental and energy policies necessitates being a goddamn wimp who won't even defend his own positions let alone his life or property. Aesthetics: all over the place, as you would expect from someone whose favorite novel is Joyce's Ulysses and whose favorite filmmaker is John Ford. (And I don't even have the excuse of being Irish!) Frugal. Keeps appointments. Affectionate. Enthusiastic cook and overeater. Strictly social drinker. Non-smoker, though has considered taking up the pipe for the sheer looks of it. Swears. Can ride a little (Western, of course). Can host.
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Trenton, New Jersey, USA
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I think I'm a good guy. Pretty good looking. Interested in fitness, outdoor activities, good food
and beers. Realizing most of my friends are work-related and hoping to find some non work friends. Willing to see where things go beyond that.
My politics are center-left. If you're a Trump supporter, MAGA, or Q, don't waste your time and move along.
Age: 62, male, looking for friends with a man in Madison, Wisconsin, USA
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I don't try to be someone I'm not as many others here. I'm a regular average guy on the outside.
Inside, I've always liked cowboys or guys who dress the part, and I like guys who are really masculine, more than myself (I'm a mix of masculine/sensitive/emotional – call the last parts feminine if you want). I'm conversational and intelligent. I don't like drama seekers or guys who email me professing that they want monogamy and immediately proceed to ask me explicit sexual questions and then throw me away once they find I don't fit their narrow sexual pursuits. I certainly have my sexual proclivities and fetishes and describe myself very generally as "submissive", but I really like to be conversational with someone and grow to like and trust them first. I don't smoke or use recreational drugs and am only interested in the same (occasional cigar smokers being an exception). I love to swim, hike, walk, bike, ski, and take photos of nature. Many of us are damaged in some form or another as gay/bi men but treat each other like disposable pieces of shit, especially on sites like this. Approach me with civility, conservation, and curiosity and you will receive that back in kind.
Age: 56, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Id, Boise, Idaho, USA
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Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and it still not being long since my last breakup, "Mountains of the Heart" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ...
"She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
Dust on the Barbed Wire ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
Jealous of the Moon ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
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Mature man looking for same to develop a good, genuine friendship and trusted confidant around my
own age. My ultimate desire is to establish a long term relationship, hopefully the friendship would develop into it, if we decide to go there. Looking for someone who can communicate openly and honestly. If we become intimate during that development that's fine too. Ready and willing to take a chance on developing a friendship first and see what develops from there.
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Age: 64, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Howdy
Age: 74, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Fergus Falls, Rural Area, Minnesota, USA
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I enjoy creating art, the outdoors, the rugged lifestyle, etc.
Age: 38, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Rock Island, Illinois, USA
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Lot of country, a little bit of city in this professional. Looking forward to meeting a man who has broad interests.
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Sydney, New South Wales, AUSTRALIA
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I can travel to you... or host in Palm Springs, CA
I love history, geography, art, languages, to read and to travel,
Also, into hiking, skiing, swimming. camping, out doors
Age: 63, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Palm Springs, California, USA
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but I long for a long term intimate relationship. I baby bold brash direct blunt but I'm an open book. I know when to mind in my manners. I know when I can cut.loose. I don't fear anything. I accept the occurrences that can happen. Except pleasures that come my way. I don't deny myself fun along the road to enlightenment. I'm semi-retired and working on my photography gallery looking to also get into videography. I'm also a creative writer jotting down short stories of my life experiences. I plan to write a book about the adventure and all the characters who played part in it. My head is often in the clouds and I'm always looking for that partner in crime open to share and experience that special space with me. I'm a simple guy and yet I'm a complex and blunt Aquarian and I suspect it would take a very open-minded individual to understand me. I'm loyal, devoted and trustworthy to a fault though it fills me with pride and with that I have a lot to offer the right guy. I hope he comes along soon while I still have some life in me. I'm 45 in my mind and I'm more active than most 45 year olds I know so that's a blessing. I'm a hopeless romantic yet not corny, love affection, some attention, morning coffee, good dinners, proper manners ( a Bostonian after all), laughter, anything furniture, photography, history, the company of friends, the outdoors, anything outdoors, hiking, biking, camping, 'urban hunting' and the beach at night and that goes for the desert, as well. I like life in nighttime mode. It's quieter, less hectic, and liberating. If I could find a guy who would enjoy these things shared as well I'd be grateful as I am with every day that comes. Life is good.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Jacksonville, Florida, USA
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I am living on the small farm I grew up on. It is simply home. I have been on another dating site
which is mostly a hookup place. Not what I'm looking for, and guys from the city usually don't understand the country or the ties to the land country people have. Looking for someone who may be a potential partner, and wants to share a quiet life in the country. That probably means someone who is retired, or can work from anywhere. I have fiber optic internet. Generally interested in men about forty and up. If you are a person who craves constant activity and excitement, this is not the place for you. If I send you a message, it is because I find your profile interesting, and would like to say hi. Hope you'll do the same.
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Age: 76, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Rural Area, Nebraska, USA
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In a perfect world you would move here and help me on the ranch. It would be good if you were
mechanical too. A love of plants , and cooking. It would not hurt if you were fuzzy as compared to smooth. But I can live with most things.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Lawrence, Kansas, USA
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Casual friendship maybe more very active into the outdoors
Age: 77, male, looking for friends with a man in Syracuse, New York, USA
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I just like to be myself and let others be themselves and see where it goes! I'm honest and genuine and am looking for likewise in a top as I am a big 'ol bottom!
Don't like posers and users or people with agendas! If you're none of these we'll get along fine! Not sure if true love or soulmates exist, change my mind! I'm kinda of shy and like alone time! Not into bar scenes although I do like a good drink! Maybe when the pandemic is over we can go out!
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