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A man who is currently single and looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man

My Vitals:

Age: 40, Orientation: gay, Height: 5' 09" (175 cm), Weight: 250 lbs (113 kg), Body Type: a few extra pounds, Ethnicity: white / european

Where I Live:

 USA  >>  Kentucky  >>  Grayson  >>  Grayson

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General Description

Hookups happen but LTR is the end goal. I feel like I am just finding myself at age 37. I know what I want more and what I need the most. I am just trying to work on my credit and not have to take all the traveling jobs. So I can anchor somewhere with someone who is like minded. I need to feel like I am put first for once. I do not like feeling like I am in a relationship with someone who puts everyone else before me. Like I am always on the back burner in their mind. I prefer to be doted over at times and then left alone at others. I am like a human cat. I love people who don’t take themselves or life too seriously but are still mature enough to rise to the occasion. I love tiny houses but that’s not a definite for me I can be just as comfortable in a large home as well if my partner prefers it. I grew up in large houses. I just love the character and closeness of a smaller home. I am not sure about kids anymore at this point and age in my life. Spiritual but not religious I go out allot but honestly in my area it’s the Only thing to do. I’d have way more fun going to laser tag, escape rooms, axe throwing places and arcade bars. That’s so much more my vibe. I am a foodie I love gourmet food and eating at Michelin star restaurants. I am a textbook Scorpio with a Leo rising. So I am an emotional creature but I have learned not to push them down, but to process them silently now and to use more logic for a more balanced approach in my life. I love travel and I want to travel young and experience the dirtier corners of the earth while also doing mission work. I can lay on a beach but I prefer going off-road and adventuring. I love and want to experience the ancient civilizations scattered around the world. Bucket list 1.) swim with wild orcas in Norway 2.) go to kakslauttanen arctic resort and stay in the glass igloo and experience the Aurora borealis for the first time and go sleigh riding with reindeer and hot coca at night while watching the Aurora overhead 3.) travel down the Amazon in a tribal canoe to stay at one of the treetop resorts and then hike to Machu Picchu and the other ancient civilizations. 4.) cage diving with great whites off Guadalupe islands off Mexico and hope to see Deep Blue. 5.) to go on an actual date for the first time in my 6.) to be kissed romantically not just in the bedroom or privately

My Details

Socio-Group artistic, average guy, chub, travel enthusiast
Hobbies & Interests art, astronomy, chess, dancing, dogs, live theater, movies, music, photography, pottery-sculpture, wine tasting, yoga
Facial Hair smooth
Hair Type short
Hair Color brown
Eye Color brown
Ethnicity white / european
Sexual Mindset bottom
Personality flirt, funny, honest, intelligent, laid back, loner, optimist, romantic, shy
Spiritual agnostic
Politics not interested
Smoking non smoker
Alcohol weekends only
Drugs occasional user

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