Not currently online
A man who is currently single and looking for a man
My Vitals:
Age: 43, Height: 5' 11" (180 cm), Weight: 265 lbs (120 kg), Body Type: a few extra pounds, Ethnicity: white / european
Where I Live:
USA >> Washington >> Olympia >> Westside
RequestADate Listing
a bear in a garden I`m a neo-agrarian spiritualist, an unordained priest of my own lack of religion. I speculate on cosmic totality, but prefer to dwell in the ambivalence of "truth" and perception. I`m self educated in organic agriculture, sustainable systems design and the arts, and college educated in biology and earth sciences. I quit college for the sake of finding a different, less for-profit and monopolised route to sustainance. I believe that schools are the tool by which potentially strong people are made docile for corporate slavery. I spend my days improving my physical and emotional health through ceramics, music, gardening, walking, swimming, fire dancing, reading, relaxing, and sexually stimulating myself. I`m looking for an older (than myself, but not everyone) man who is kind and jovial, who bears within himself a vision of totality but follows no dogma. Someone healthful and if not already environmentally conscious, then interested in change toward that ideal. Hopefully, you are financially stable, but not a slave to industry. I`m interested in getting off the grid, so whomever I consider for long term need be capable of furthering that goal with me. I want a relationship that is non-codependant (not within the stucture of the judeo-christian contract). I`m looking for an intimate friend, someone long term, but am entirely uninterested in unspoken, passive contracts for the ownership of eachother`s affections. I`m a free child of earth, and I`m open to loving many of my kin. Any contract limiting my behaviour needs to be explicitly stated and agreed upon before coupling. I`m a visionary, and a good catch. Everyone I know loves me dearly and appreciates my attitude and insights. -LightBear
Communities this member belongs to: (manage communities)
General Description
My Details
Socio-Group | artistic, average guy, bear, hairy man, travel enthusiast |
Hobbies & Interests | art, beach, cats, dancing, gardening, outdoors, pottery-sculpture, ranching, livestock, reading, travel, yoga |
Facial Hair | beard |
Hair Type | buzzcut |
Hair Color | brown |
Eye Color | blue |
Ethnicity | white / european |
Sexual Mindset | oral, versatile |
Personality | funny, honest, intelligent, laid back, masculine, out-going |
Spiritual | atheist, buddhist, earth based-pagan |
Politics | far left, not interested |
Smoking | non smoker |
Alcohol | occasional drinker |
Drugs | just pot, occasional user |
I'm looking for
Socio-Group | academic, artistic, average guy, bear, bisexual male, boy next door, cowboy, daddy type, hairy man, mature older, preppy, travel enthusiast |
Hobbies & Interests | art, beach, dogs, gardening, outdoors, ranching, livestock, reading, yoga |
Facial Hair | beard, goatee |
Hair Type | balding, buzzcut, short |
Ethnicity | african / african-american / black, hispanic / latino, middle eastern / arab / north african, mixed / multi, native / aboriginal, white / european |
Sexual Mindset | oral, versatile, versatile top |
Personality | flirt, funny, honest, intelligent, laid back, masculine, optimist, out-going |
Spiritual | agnostic, atheist, buddhist, earth based-pagan, uncommitted |
Politics | far left, left, not interested |
Smoking | non smoker |
Alcohol | non drinker, occasional drinker, weekends only |
Drugs | just pot, occasional user |