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A man who is currently single and looking for a man

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Age: 46, Height: 5' 11" (180 cm), Weight: 185 lbs (84 kg), Body Type: average, Ethnicity: white / european

Where I Live:

 USA  >>  Oklahoma  >>  Tulsa

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I am 32 years of age and live in small town Okmulgee. I am a pretty down to earth kind of guy. For some reason, people always end up laughing when they are around me. I am usually smiling, singing, laughing or I guess saying something funny that people laugh at. LOL! Now I 'm laughing thinking about it and I don 't know why. smiles Although I live in a small town I am a city person. I have lived in a few of the bigger cities outside of Oklahoma and I miss it. I 've lived in and around Portland, Oregon; Seattle, Washington; Anchorage, Alaska and of course Tulsa, Oklahoma. Living in a small town where there just isn 't much to do can make you feel a little trapped. I love to cook for friends and family. I love to have people over for dinner, movie and conversation. Though there are those times when I just like quiet time to relax and chill out. I enjoy picking up around the house and doing laundry, it actually relaxes me. I love to put on some Sade, rock or country music and get in a zone. I like to socialize with large groups of friends and family, and occasionally more intimate socialization. I am a business professional. I take my career and school very seriously. One of my favorite things to do is watch movies, whether it be at home or at the theater. I have over 500 movies in my home collection and those movies range in genre. I love to try new and exciting things. Especially food. I have learned that I love pretty much all cuisines from different cultures. I wouldn 't say that I 'm a food snob cause I can huff down a good ol ' pizza or greasy hamburger with the best of em. When I get a hankering for good Indian food, I will drive 45 minutes to my favorite spot, Desi Wok for Chicken Tikka Masala w/ basmati rice, hummus and nan. LOL! Almost all of my friendships are long lasting, new and old. I have always been considered a best friend or brother to all of my friends... at least to my face. Hahahaha. I love game night and I 'm very competitive... I hate losing. Not just in games but in all things. My perfect match should be so in love with me that there is no chance of him cheating. I say that because I have been with cheaters and it sucks. My perfect match should be my best friend and we should have major trust between us. We should have some things in common. He should me able to communicate with me and tell me what is on his mind and I should be able to communicate with him and talk to him about what 's on my mind as well. He should be someone that I can take around my family friends and he can take me around his. He should be a lover of life and wants the most out of it. Don 't keep secrets from me, tell me straight up as I will do the same. Don 't cheat on me and bring something home that would destroy our relationship. Love me and I will love you. Take care of me and I will take care of you. Be gentle with me and I will be gentle with you. Hold my heart inside your heart. If you work it right you can have me wrapped around your finger but I may have you wrapped around mine also ;-) I am looking for friendship that can turn into a relationship and someone to share my life with. I have a huge heart and a lot of love to give to the right person. I 'm not into drag queens or cross dressers. I want a man who is happy being a man and doesn 't need to dress up like a woman. If you think that you might be a match for me, email me and let 's see what happens.

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