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A man who is currently single and looking for a man
My Vitals:
Age: 50, Orientation: gay, Height: 6' 02" (188 cm), Weight: 205 lbs (93 kg), Body Type: athletic, Ethnicity: white / european
Where I Live:
USA >> California >> San Francisco
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one of my favorite quotes is...One of these days someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else... Though I am single, these are things that I treasure the most: Feeling my partner's presence no matter where he is in our home Waking through the night and feeling him there beside me Waking in the morning and seeing him there Slippers beside the bed or the door Robes, coffee and the paper over Saturday and Sunday breakfast Seeing socks, t-shirts and underwear lying around that aren't mine Watching him shave A partners scent on me, in his clothes or our bed The spontaneity of making love without uttering a word The hair on his body brushing against me, setting me on fire Communicating without uttering a word the heat and romance of eye to eye gazes, touch, long soft kisses, whispering in his ear Watching him think or work on something His look when he wears reading glasses Holding his hand His smile that only I get Feeling me heart leap when my partner walked into the room Feeding him and packing his lunch Surprising him with gifts and flowers, silly or serious A Man with a spine that can be honest even when it hurts, and Trust, though I haven't experienced much of that yet. I know it is coming in the next partner Saying or hearing I Love You and being able to believe it Hey guys thought I would update my profile and see if it catches any ones attention. My experience on this site has been interesting to say the least. I tend to be more of a nester not much of a scenester tend to like to hang outside, love day trips and anything to do with the ocean. Not much of a drinker and actually pretty vanilla, my private pic may suggest something different but it is just a cool picture of me. DO NOT BELIEVE IN PARALLEL DATING IF IT COMES TO THAT. Be well
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General Description
Gay dude wanting more!!!! So in addition to the dating aspect, I am sober that has nothing to do with you. If you can drink and you do not have issue around that then it is fine. For me I just had problems when it came to alcohol and drugs and that is not a part of my life. I am out of a marriage that did not work I would love to meet someone with a similar communication style. I like talking about the problems and being done with them if they are done. I’d love someone who can laugh at themselves and me, can you? I can. Something to know, in 2018 I had an accident resulting in being permanently in a wheelchair for long distance, I can walk in my home and working on longer bouts but the doctors are not sure what may come back and what may not. My Dick, ass and body otherwise work normally, just have to navigate some balance issues. What do you think, are you ready to try something new and exciting Figuring out what is important to me in a relationship and what I can live without. Interesting as I get older my views are becoming more abstract, Ask questions if you are interested and think you might enjoy getting to know some more about me. I have a little belly and kinda furry and enjoy my life and who I am. HIV+ almost 20yrs and have made peace with it, if you are interested in pursuing something sexually be aware this will not be changing anytime soon. Enjoying the journey and where I am going, realizing there is something very sexy about a man who realizes it is the differences or what we may consider personal flaws (i.e.; ears, nose or an imperfect smile) that make us sexy. I am a total GOOFY ROMANTIC! Two ADULTS make the best partnership ....Deep friendship+Deep honesty+Deep feelings+Deep passion =Real intimacy. CAN NOT EMPHASIZE ENOUGH THE IMPORTANCE OF MANNERS, WE ARE ALL HUMAN BEINGS WHO DESIRE RESPECT AND INTIMACY. a small insight... one of my favorite quotes is..."One of these days someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else..." I tend to be more of a nester & not much of a scenester tend to like to hang outside, love day trips. Anything around water Be well
My Details
| Socio-Group | academic, athlete, average guy, butch, cowboy, daddy type, hairy man, leather, professional |
| Hobbies & Interests | astronomy, beach, cars, chess, computers, country western dancing, cycling, dancing, dogs, exercise, fish aquariums, gardening, karaoke, live theater, movies, music, outdoors, photography, pottery-sculpture, ranching, livestock, reading, rodeos, running, science fiction, snowboarding, travel, volleyball, wrestling, yoga |
| Facial Hair | beard, goatee, mustache |
| Hair Type | balding, buzzcut, shaved, short |
| Hair Color | brown |
| Eye Color | blue |
| Ethnicity | white / european |
| Sexual Mindset | versatile |
| Personality | flirt, funny, honest, intelligent, masculine, optimist, out-going, realist, romantic, shy |
| Spiritual | buddhist |
| Politics | left, moderate |
| Smoking | non smoker |
| Alcohol | non drinker, recovering |
| Drugs | non user |