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A man who is currently single and looking for a long term relationship with a man
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Age: 52, Orientation: gay, Height: 6' 06" (198 cm), Weight: 240 lbs (109 kg), Body Type: average, Ethnicity: white / european
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I honestly hate "dating". I think it is kinda fake. And it causes people to be fake. Does that sound harsh? But your best pictures. Your best behavior. Everyone talking about all the great accomplishments. I don't know. I prefer to find people to hang out with and get to know each other over time. Seriously hang out and get to know is not read to mean sleep around and get to know people. But when stated like that I stated it it sounds like I am not really interested in anything. But I am. Too bad I missed those teenage/undergrad years where you were around people and could easily meet someone/get to know them at the same time and then date. But life is what it is. Would like to find someone to . . . get lunch with, help paint the house, repair a fence, go fishing, go kayaking, etc. . . just hang out and get to know one another. Go from there. I am a very traditional non-gay-scene person in my outlook, personal beliefs, and the way I live my life. But I am gay. I am extremely independent in the way I live my life and the way I think and approach matters. But when I am serious about someone they are my life and I need to be theirs eventually. I could fill out all of these questions and write more about what I do or don't but I would prefer to let that unfold naturally, if I ever find myself spending time with someone. While I've dated corporate VPs, high ranking gov officials, etc, I think I like blue collar men the best. Or maybe what I know to be blue collar men to be: down to earth, hardworking, honest, traditional, settled, etc. I'm not speaking in terms of dress up here. Men that I have dated that are farmers, mechanics, in construction, etc are men that I feel the most connected to and the most attracted to. They don't do what they do to say "Hey look at me I'm gay and I work in construction." They do it because they love working with their hands and outdoors. Men who were married to women at one time I have found to be capable of opening up and a relationship--capable of settling down and not wondering what they a remissing or who is around the next corner. Masculine men who are very comfortable with themselves--their sexuality and life--are the most attractive to me. But I don't have definitive likes and dislikes. If it works it works. If not it doesn't. Right? I date to find a good person, not someone dressed up in a costume or pretending to be this or that. Looking for more than skin keep.
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General Description
Not blue collar but white collar. Grew up in blue collar household in rural US. Lived all over the US and one foreign country. Been back in VA for the last 13 years. Keep moving farther out from the DC core. I guess I am coming full circle. Would love to have a farm some day to eat what I grow. Hire out the slaughtering. Maybe have a dog park for people escaping the city. Or pick and carry fruit and nuts. I am down to earth, honesty, trustworthy wm. Completely disease free and staying that way. Not into men into extreme living whether that is sleeping around, clubs, cross dressing, S&M, etc. Just looking for that honest hardworking masculine white male that would like to have a side kick.
